After publishing Gals -As I know them several people came up with a thought that I should try classifying guys .I tried but I found myself not that complacent enough .So as an antidote I attempted to put down my thoughts over something related to it.
Pre Script: This is based on evidences , observations , experiences .It does not has resemblance with any person dead or alive.
There have been times when I have seen men pondering over , solving the biggest brain teaser of life- how to talk to her?!!!
Now, the story is as- you like someone and you are entirely clueless what should be your next move? You tell your best friend about it, and your best friend ( after taking few digs about the newly found bhabhi ) he sends his armed forces with him being the commander officer to search every corporeality) about her. And you are standing there as a (to be) PHD person , waiting for your thesis to be complete. Now , you are restless, you want to know yourself what is she up to?! And you commit your 1st mistake -Stalking (yes!!Even I can be melodramatic- CB watch out!! ) Stalking is a dagger which has the potential to transform you from "Romeo" to "Creep-e-o". Straight No for this.
Okay , you are super proud of your friends for doing this precious work of yours in little time and as quietly as possible. You have actually started liking your name being associated with your pretty girl .Now you have the pre requisite info , all you need is a way out to get in touch with her. How do you do it? Facebook , good option , mutual friends, better option , become a cynosure ,best option. Now , for people preferring first option, a word of caution( clearing throat) FB should only be used to get acquainted with your girl It should never become a medium of your love-y--dove-y communication because it brings a tinge of casualness .It does look like a casual be-l friended -ness or time pass, phone calls are surely better but there is nothing which beats that face to face communication, that expression judging communication, that eye contact . There is something magical about it . Don't let the child in you play out and make you propose her over whatsapp , FB or phone call. It is a SIN. You need to bedazzling over your selection and should have that aplomb to say those ear embellishing words face to face.For your first date, try to be a dapper, I have not seen a single girl ( be any type :Refer Gals As I see them) not noticing what you are wearing.So, be a little girly, spend a little time with your forgotten friend -Mirror.And the last one , now this one goes right into your ears( in a sutto voce)" Chivalry is a brand builder,it is a gun which has his target on auto focus, a coin which does not has a flip side , a pro which doesn't has a con, a PR agent in disguise." (But ,yes, I still say:Excess of everything is bad) if you do all this with conviction I am pretty sure you won't get to measure the inches of her stillettos or you won't get slapped even if she hated you before.
P.S. Every girl is different . And I still believe in the concept that no body can understand woman. So, don't beat me if it didn't work but do message me what all happened ;)
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