I am a human being. And human beings make mistake, almost constantly. It is a regular affair. We fall short of what we aim for, almost always. We get impatient. We get angry. We get selfish. We get swooned by freaking circumstances .That is pretty okay. It is just the way it is. Cannot change it. Will always forever more be. We are humans. We Cannot fight it or eliminate it completely. A cat is got to be a cat and people got to be people.
There is really only one way to deal gracefully with being a jacked-up human and get alleviated from the trepidation of making mistakes, and that is this: "FORGIVE YOURSELF ".
It is not a once and for all thing, self-forgiveness. It is more like a constant attitude. You have to carry it all along yourself , everywhere. It is just being " hopeful". The concept involves loving yourself enough to offer yourself a million more tries.. We have to forgive ourselves and then believe in inner-selves. You have to consider yourself " AWESOME" to challenge any scary circumstances.
So, next time,if you get stumbled in a small pit hole or falter wearing high heels in a crowded place or get shaky , numb or start maffling before live audience or experience mawkishness after seeing a drama or become a complete basket case during exams . Be gentle with yourself . You are a human and you have every right to live with your faults . You owe yourself many more tries . Humans are not impeccable , accept it!
P.S. But , if you have nickel for every time , you better check yourself.
