Yesterday she,
Today me,
Day after tomorrow,
I don't care if he has any.
Here goes the quintessential mindset of this generation about relationships. Ofcourse, it is an extremely private stuff to comment or write on but the negative vibes I get seeing all of it; provokes me , rekindles my inner wrath , ignites my inner goddess to climb out of the chaise lounge and hold a pen and paper and give words a flow and here i go..
Love is a pure, magical thing.Contaminating it with a "time pass" baggage is an offensive adulteration (with domestic repercussions). Most of the couple blame it on stressful work place or hectic schedules for breakups ,which I really find vague and unacceptable.World has become such a small place that keeping in touch is a mere walk in the park.
When I look around, I see my parents, I admire their beautiful relationship , even after years of being happily married, they are still so much in love.I strongly feel ,it is the institution of marriage that kept them happily bonded for so many years.Many would contradict by saying this ideology is a sinking ship.Okay, I do agree that the concept of marriageas an institution has evolved with time but it is not DEAD.The significance of "fidelity" in any relationship has been immortal and will always be .I am not talking about fidelity only in a physical aspect ,I am mentioning it in more of a psychological aspect.Being with someone just because you HAVE to be(with someone else in mind )is not enough !You have to be connected in all aspects.
Relationships are not meant to be a flaunting material,they are meant to celebrate the uniqueness of being together. Respect fidelity , get a meaningful relationship ,make it magical,believe in commitments . "Friends with mutual benefits" kind of Boyfriend-girlfriend relationships have no niche for your good heart (i mean heartaches,heartburns), your heart is priceless afterall YOU GET TO LIVE ONLY ONCE.
